Good looks and physical appearance are qualities, which are collectively acknowledged as external and shallow when talked about in the perspective of evaluating a person for human relationships. This can either be for friendship or for a more intimate and sexual relationship.
Using this premise, most people tend to evaluate a person based on his or her physical appearance as well as their personality traits. However, some people will look only at the physical appearance while others will look for the personality traits as well. But whatever the choice, we cannot simply surmise the fact that personality has been one of the significant factors why people see the beauty within an individual.
In a particular study conducted to identify if personality and physical appearance can be considered as “predictors” of mate selection in females, the researchers have found that nearly 90% of the 92 married couples surveyed have answered that personality is preferred over physical appearance. Among the many factors that constitute personality, kindness is the most important.
According to the study, almost 90% of the respondents replied that they would rather marry a person with a kind heart than a person who is only beautiful from the outside but is contrastingly vicious in the inside.
The law of Karma, patterned upon the rock of Newton’s law of cause and effect, asserts that for every action, there is an equal reaction: take away someone’s sight and you will lose yours. Give kindness, and you will reap what you sow.
The simple fact is that if people pay more attention to being kind rather than being vain in their appearance, beauty will naturally emanate from within. That is what real beauty is all about.
What most people do not know is that enlightenment and the goodness of a person causes his personal aura to vibrate at a vastly increased rate. This vibration frequency creates the total character development that constitutes the attractiveness of a person, based both on the physical aspect and personality facets.
The bottom line is that it is really “nice to be nice.” Any acts of kindness, even a simple smile or uttering a few “kind” words can make a difference.
Remember that a smile is better than a few dabs of lipstick or a few strokes of blush-on. What matters most is how you show your kindness to everyone. From there, beauty naturally radiates from the positive aura that is emanating from within your soul.
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